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The Blind Side (10/10)
by Tony Medley
Run time 128 minutes.
OK for children.
Sandra Bullock finally reaches her potential
in this heart-warming true story, of black teenager Michael Oher
(newcomer Quinton Aaron) and the chance at life given him by Leigh Anne
Tuohy (Bullock) by taking him off the street, integrating him into her
white, upper class family, and setting the stage for him to become a
first round draft pick of the Baltimore Ravens.
I’ve seen two stomach-turning injuries
watching NFL football. I was an LA Rams 50-yard-line season ticket
holder. My seats were in the top row, row 71, so I used high powered
binoculars. In one game against
Green Bay the Rams threw a pass
into the end zone that was incomplete. I kept my glasses on the play
after it was over and one of the Packers’ defensive backs was on his
back with his leg in the air. The leg was so badly broken, it was at
right angles. Not many people saw how badly he was injured.
A few years later I was watching Washington play the
Giants on television. Giants’ linebacker Lawrence Taylor fell on
Washington
quarterback Joe Theismann in such a way that it broke Joe’s leg so badly
that Theismann went into convulsions. It was so upsetting that I didn’t
watch the replay more than once.
This movie opens with video of the Taylor-Theismann
incident. It shows it multiple times. I never wanted to see it again.
Even Theismann admits he won’t watch it. It was very difficult to watch.
So this movie does not start out well for me. There’s no reason to
impose this on an audience once, much less multiple times.
That said, this is a terrific movie. It’s a
well told story by director-writer John Lee Hancock, based on the book
by Michael Lewis. I’ve seen the real Leigh Ann and, unlike most movies
about living people, she is at least as beautiful as movie star Bullock.
But Bullock, wearing a blonde wig, perfectly captures Leigh Ann’s feisty
personality.
Aaron is surprisingly unathletic for the role
of an extremely talented football player, clearly too slow. Other than
that, Aaron gives a believable performance as a disadvantaged street
kid, considering he’s a neophyte.
Another weakness of the film is that every
play that starts with line play, starts with helmet to helmet contact.
Helmut to helmet contact is banned in all levels of football. It’s
subject to a 15 yard penalty.
But other than that,
and despite Aaron’s lack of athleticism, there are some extremely good
performances, especially by Bullock, who finally comes into her own as
an actress, and Jae Head, who plays Leigh Anne’s son, S.J.
Head reminds me of the irrepressible Ricky Nelson before he became a
rock star and adopted an Elvis-type sneer.
Another positive aspect of the movie is the
shot it takes at the hypocritical NCAA. At the end of the film it shows
a despicable NCAA inspector trying to undo all the good Leigh Anne and
her family did for Michael.
No movie is perfect, so the fact that there
are some things about this of which I am critical doesn’t mean that it
isn’t one of the best and most rewarding films I’ve seen this year,
which it is.